How to Build a Healthy Relationship with a Stepchild
Co-authored by Klare Heston, LICSW Explore this Article Showing Interest in the Child Building Trust Living Together Show 1 more... Ask a Question Related Articles References Marrying someone who already has children can be a challenge, but it can also be an immense blessing. As a step-parent, you get to serve as friend and mentor to the child--you don't have to try to step in as a third parent. Focus on building good rapport with your stepchild and fostering mutual respect and trust. Also, keep in mind that this can be a major adjustment for yourself and the child. They may never fully accept you the way you'd like, but just do your best to develop a civil relationship with them. Method 1 Showing Interest in the Child 1 Initiate a connection, but let the child set the pace. Allow your stepchild to define the relationship they’d like to have with you. Express your interest, but leave the ball in their court as to how they want to move forward. [1...